You Already Know Something Is Missing.

You feel it in the silence between you and your partner.
In the desires you've never said out loud.
In the version of yourself you keep tucked away because you were never given permission to let her breathe.

That changes here.

  • Most people spend their whole lives wanting more from intimacy and never asking for it.

    Not because they don't deserve it. Because nobody ever told them they could.

    Shame does that. Silence does that. A lifetime of messages that said your desires are dangerous, your body is suspect, and your pleasure is the least important thing in the room - that does that.

    This work dismantles all of it.

  • THE HEART

    Where liberation begins.

    We start with shame - the deepest, oldest layer. Together we do the tender, necessary work of uncovering who you really are underneath everything you were taught to be. And we begin the practice of loving her.

    THE MIND

    Where possibility expands.

    Once the heart opens, the mind gets to work. We examine the beliefs you inherited - about your body, your desires, your worth - and you get to decide, maybe for the first time, which ones you actually want to carry.

    THE MOUTH

    Where liberation becomes real.

    This is where everything lands. In your voice. In your words. In your ability to say - out loud, to yourself or someone you trust - exactly what you want, what you need, and what gives you pleasure. With no shame. No apology. No filter.

    True intimacy starts in the heart, binds in the mind, and comes out of the mouth.

  • You Belong Here.

    This space holds you if you are:

    A Black woman ready to reclaim her body, her desires, and her voice

    Someone carrying an intersectional identity - LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, disabled, or chronically ill - who has never seen themselves centered in wellness spaces

    Any person of any gender who knows something is locked inside them around intimacy and is finally ready to open it

    You have spent long enough disappearing from your own life. This is where you come back.

  • This Is Not Theory.

    At 58 years old, I experienced a sexual liberation that dismantled everything I thought I knew about myself. Everything I had kept locked away. Every desire I had never named. Every feeling about my body I had never examined.

    That experience showed me that freedom was possible - for me, at 58, after a lifetime of silence. And if it was possible for me, I know it is possible for you.

    I built Talking About Intimacy because you deserve a space where the conversations most people fear become the conversations that set you free.

    People who know this work say I am like the Sojourner Truth of Sex - an unflinching truth-teller committed to my own liberation and the liberation of all people.

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Two beautiful Black women embracing

Trust is the foundation of intimacy.

bell hooks

Ways to Work Together

Ready to Begin?

  • Private, conversation-based one-on-one coaching that moves you through the full Heart-Mind-Mouth arc at your own pace.

  • Community-held space for collective liberation and shared exploration.

  • Gathering of like minds and hearts for intimacy liberation. Coming September 2027; stay tuned!

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What People Are Saying

  • Having Magenta as an intimacy coach has been incredible! I have always felt a lot of shame around sex and it was difficult to admit to myself that I even needed intimacy coaching in the first place. As someone who is neurodivergent, my relationship to sex has often been one of following scripts and not feeling present in my body. Magenta's coaching has allowed me to uncover so many insights and to rewrite the harmful narratives that have become deeply entrenched in my understanding of sex and my own body. Our sessions have been very healing for me... I cannot recommend Magenta enough, especially if you are neurodivergent or feel uncomfortable talking about sex.

    — Alexandra S

  • Working with Magenta came at a time when I had a lot on my plate. She gave me space to work through it at my own pace, without pushing, which made a real difference. She also helped me turn that reflection into action, getting more organized and finding more clarity... She provided steady, practical support that helped me move forward. If you're looking for a coach who listens and helps you actually take steps, Magenta is highly recommended.

    — Olivia C

  • Highly Recommend. Magenta is trustworthy and offers concrete tools and plans of action. She creates a safe, productive environment allowing you to explore and experiment. Her coaching has been instrumental and impactful!

    — T. W.

  • [Magenta] was communicative, collaborative, and respectful. I appreciated that after a few sessions, she realized my concerns would require assistance from a sex therapist and told me. This displayed her integrity to not keeping me as a client just to get paid.

    — KJR

  • Magenta brings warmth, gentleness, and genuine care to her coaching. She creates space for me to explore personal and sometimes complicated topics without feeling rushed toward an answer. I appreciate her curiosity and her ability to notice what is beneath the surface, often inviting me to look at something from a perspective I hadn’t considered. She takes a sincere interest in what matters to me.

    — Laura S.

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